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We're Rebranding to North State Nannies!
Embracing Change: The Journey of rebranding from Select Sitters to North State Nannies After 14 wonderful years as Select Sitters , we’re...
Kara Varnell
Sep 122 min read
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Navigating Conflict: What to Do When an Issue Arises with a Nanny Family.
Working as a nanny can be deeply rewarding, but like any job that involves close, ongoing relationships, it can also come with its share of challenges. Whether it’s a miscommunication about duties, boundaries being crossed, or differences in parenting styles, conflicts between nannies and families aren’t uncommon. The key lies in how you approach and resolve those conflicts. If you’re experiencing tension or an issue with your nanny family, here are steps to help you navigate
Kara Varnell
Aug 43 min read
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Don’t Start Your Nanny Search Without Knowing These 5 Things!
Finding the right nanny for your family is a big decision — and like most important things in life, the process is smoother (and less stressful!) when you know what to expect going in. Whether you're hiring a nanny for the first time or you've been through the search before, here are the top 5 things every family should know before starting their nanny search: 1. Be Clear On What You Need (And What You Don’t) Every family is different, and so is every nanny. Before you start
Kara Varnell
Jul 242 min read
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How to Ace Your Initial Nanny Interview: Expert Tips from the North State Nannies team
At North State Nannies, we know that behind every great nanny placement is a confident, prepared caregiver who knows how to shine during the interview. When families meet you for the first time, they're not just reviewing your resume; they're imagining you as part of their home and their child's daily life. Here are our top interview tips to help nanny candidates make a strong, lasting impression and land the right job with the right family. 1. Research the Family Before You
Kara Varnell
Jun 173 min read
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In Person Meetings & Trial Days: How to Make the Most of Them
When it comes to hiring a nanny, resumes and Zoom interviews can only tell you so much. That’s where in-person meetings  and trial days...
Kara Varnell
May 273 min read
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What Happens Next? A Step-by-Step Look at the Nanny Placement Process
You’ve submitted your application, completed your initial consultation, and have paid your initiation fee. What’s next? First of all, thank you for trusting us to help you find the right nanny for your family. This process is personal, important, and we’re honored to be part of it. Below is a step-by-step guide to what you can expect as we begin the journey toward a great match Step 1: Crafting Your Individual Job Post Based on your consultation and application notes, we’ll c
Kara Varnell
May 132 min read
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Why Nanny Contract Renewals Matter: A Guide for Families and Nannies
Whether you’ve been working together for a few months or a few years, the relationship between a family and their nanny thrives on clear communication and mutual respect. One of the most important tools for maintaining that trust is a well-written, up-to-date nanny contract. Allowing a contract to quietly expire can lead to confusion, frustration, and missed opportunities for growth. That’s why regular contract renewals are so important, for both  families and nannies. What I
Kara Varnell
May 123 min read
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How to Address Concerns with Your Nanny: Best Practices for Respectful and Productive Conversations
Having a nanny is a uniquely personal working relationship; your nanny is not just an employee, but a trusted caregiver in your home. So when concerns arise, it’s understandable to feel uneasy about bringing them up. But avoiding the conversation can lead to confusion, resentment, or even a breakdown in the relationship. The key is to communicate clearly, respectfully, and in person. Here's how to navigate these conversations in a way that encourages collaboration and strengt
Kara Varnell
May 123 min read
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How to Approach Giving Your Nanny a Raise and Review (and What’s Typical)
Hiring a nanny brings personalized, in-home care to your children, something that’s incredibly valuable. But how do you handle raises and performance reviews once your nanny has been with your family for a while? Many families aren’t sure what’s customary or how to begin the conversation. Here’s a practical guide to help you navigate annual reviews and compensation increases with confidence and care. 1. Schedule a Formal Review—Yes, Even for a Nanny Just like in any professio
Kara Varnell
May 52 min read
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12 Essential Questions to Ask When Interviewing a Nanny:
Because finding the right fit for your family matters. Hiring a nanny is one of the most important decisions a parent can make. You're not just looking for someone to care for your children; you're looking for someone who will nurture, guide, and grow with your family. Whether you’re a first-time parent or looking to find someone new, these questions can help you get to the heart of who a nanny is, how they work, and if they’re the right match for your household. Here are 12
Kara Varnell
May 53 min read
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Why Hiring a Nanny May Be the Best Choice for Your Family Over Daycare
As a parent, choosing the right childcare option is one of the most important decisions you’ll make. Between balancing work, personal responsibilities, and the desire to ensure your child receives loving, attentive care, it’s no wonder many families feel overwhelmed by the options. While daycare centers have long been a traditional choice, more and more families are discovering the unique benefits of hiring a nanny. Here’s why a nanny might be the perfect fit for your family—
Kara Varnell
May 42 min read
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What Kind of Christmas Gift Should You Give Your Nanny? Thoughtful Ideas to Show Your Appreciation
The holiday season is a time for giving—and there’s no one more deserving of your gratitude than the person who helps care for your child with love, patience, and dedication all year long: your nanny. Nannies often become like family. They support your child’s growth, your daily routines, and sometimes your sanity! Choosing the right Christmas gift is a wonderful way to show how much you appreciate everything they do. If you're unsure where to start, here are some thoughtful
Kara Varnell
May 42 min read
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Interview Tips For Families
It’s time to meet with your first nanny candidate! As you begin this process, we wanted to share our team’s best tips to make your interview process efficient and helpful as you determine the best fit for your family. Introduce the nanny to your family. We've coordinated a video chat for you and the nanny to meet virtually. Take a few minutes to introduce yourselves and let the nanny meet your family. Be sure to take note of how the nanny interacts with your children. Is the
Kara Varnell
Nov 7, 20232 min read
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